Attraction + Comfort = Seduction. Each phase has three smaller stages under the Mystery Method.
He then spoke about how you need to start off every interaction with a girl with attraction, and after attraction you must qualify her by asking her questions.
But as important as attraction is, Mystery pointed out that the game is played in the “Comfort” stage of the interaction, and that it usually takes 7 hours from meet to close (ie: sex). That’s an average. It can take anywhere between 4 to 10 hours, but usually 7 (6 hours of which are in Comfort).
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Player Lifestyle, May 28th 2007 |
Posted in Methods and Guides
I had a few thoughts this week, from watching some guys I was working with.
Some guys (I can’t remember who) re-labelled the term Active Disinterest as “Tentative Interest”. I think this came from Swinggcat, I’m not sure. To me this is all the same thing, but for some guys this distinction could be useful because they are learning only from text so it’s important for the terminology to be as accurate as possible. Since they aren’t seeing direct examples, nothing can be taken for granted I suppose.
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Player Lifestyle, May 28th 2007 |
Posted in Attraction
Someone asked about using a neg as an opener in a recent thread. The reply is: Yes, in fact you MUST neg to open sometimes or you won’t get in. In the scene I’ve been sarging in lately, with highly socially proofed girls who are 9s and 10s, negs are the ONLY way to open. I’ll explain in a mini FR below. It’s unbelievable: every girl assumes anything you say (opinion openers, C&F, whatever) is hitting on her, because she’s so used to it.
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Player Lifestyle, May 28th 2007 |
Posted in Approaching
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