WHAT IS GENUINE? WHAT IS FAKE? WHAT ACTIONS ARE GENUINE ACTIONS? HOW DOES THIS EFFECT US? WHAT PHILOSOPHICAL ISSUES ARISE FROM THIS? WHAT CONSTITUTES MUTUAL BENEFIT IN PICKUP?
A very important topic.
Try to bear with me, chunks practical and tactical materials ARE buried within..
An HB is there, surrounded by her friends. She has put on this BITCH act.
Is she REALLY a bitch? Unlikely. All my girlfriends were wonderful human beings. Beautiful people have it easier because they are beautiful and often times have better upbringings because of it.
BUT – she needs to have a standard when all these NOBODY guys approach her. So her values are very honed and understood. When a man walks up and says, “Can I buy you a beer” this WILL annoy her. While the guy thinks he’s doing something nice for her, she gets this ALL the time. She is desensitized to this. You are the 8th guy TODAY!
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This is some of the main shit I focus on fixing when I’m in the field. Almost EVERYONE I met so far screws up this shit, and it totally fucks up their sarges.
Taught a few hundred guys by now just from meeting guys through PAIR and in workshops recently, and this is the shit that ups their game instantly with no tactics or anything. I see this shit ALL THE TIME. It’s the BIGGEST and most COMMON problem I see after everyone I’ve met. This is some of the main shit I focus on fixing when I’m in the field.
Almost EVERYONE I met so far screws up this shit, and it totally fucks up their sarges.
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Squash is a fast-paced indoor racquet sport. It was formerly called “squash racquets” in a reference to the “squashable” soft ball used in the game.
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Attraction + Comfort = Seduction. Each phase has three smaller stages under the Mystery Method.
He then spoke about how you need to start off every interaction with a girl with attraction, and after attraction you must qualify her by asking her questions.
But as important as attraction is, Mystery pointed out that the game is played in the “Comfort” stage of the interaction, and that it usually takes 7 hours from meet to close (ie: sex). That’s an average. It can take anywhere between 4 to 10 hours, but usually 7 (6 hours of which are in Comfort).
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I had a few thoughts this week, from watching some guys I was working with.
Some guys (I can’t remember who) re-labelled the term Active Disinterest as “Tentative Interest”. I think this came from Swinggcat, I’m not sure. To me this is all the same thing, but for some guys this distinction could be useful because they are learning only from text so it’s important for the terminology to be as accurate as possible. Since they aren’t seeing direct examples, nothing can be taken for granted I suppose.
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