I’ve been getting a lot of questions from readers about profiles.
Everyone seems to want to know *how* to set up their profile in the best way to get more success.
Well, I have some SHOCKING news for you.
But before I get to it, I wanted to tell you a quick little story of what happened to me today.
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Player Lifestyle, June 19th 2007 |
Posted in Online Game
Remember, first of all, that the number is merely a bridge to a future meet and nothing more. It is a logistical necessity, not game. Your GOAL should never be to number close the girl.
The most important thing is to make sure you aren’t SUPPLICATING or BEGGING her for her number. Make it mutual or HER idea. Ideally, you will have gamed her well enough that she will OFFER her number.
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Player Lifestyle, June 19th 2007 |
Posted in Number Closing
You are on the first date with a girl you have a crush on. Your palms are sweating, you are trying damn hard to come up with something funny to say, only to have long silences in your conversation.
She gets up after an hour and says: “Sorry but it’s getting late. I have to go home to feed my dog.” Before you could say something, she has left already.
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Player Lifestyle, June 19th 2007 |
Posted in Dating
There are many many sexual “stories” out there. And there are many ways to introduce sexual “themes” and from there it’s a hop, skip and a jump to the full close provided the locale is appropriate.
When I tell a sexual “story” or introduce a sexual theme, I may approach it as follows:
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Player Lifestyle, June 16th 2007 |
Posted in Escalation
Power is the biggest aphrodisiac of all time. This was true in the earliest days of the caveman period, true in Egypt, Greece and Rome, and it’s still true today.
Women in particular are hugely attracted to power. In different historical times, the display of power took different forms; if you go back to caveman days the most muscular hunter had the power, in Rome the senator with the most connections, and nowadays social status, the car you drive, and the amount of money you have signify your power. But the strange thing is that there are guys in today’s society who have money, and drive wonderful sports cars but don’t get laid. They are afraid of even approaching hot girls.
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Player Lifestyle, June 16th 2007 |
Posted in Inner Game, Identity and Psychology
The majority of theories on how to pick up girls were compiled by guys who had problems with women and tried to get better. Therein lies the very nature of the problems with most theory. They all assume that you, going over to the girl, have less value then her. By assuming this, you’re forced to play a role of lower value. Why on earth are you assuming you are worth less then the girl? I don’t care how hot she is!
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Player Lifestyle, June 15th 2007 |
Posted in Comfort and Rapport