When sitting arm in arm with your target, lean in and smell her hair and say “you smell so fucking good, I’m trying so hard not to kiss you right now….”

Then, push her off you and say “now get off me”.

At this point, do a slight freeze out or Indication of Disinterest (IOD) and wait for her to give you an Indication of Interest (IOI).

If you did everything correctly up to this point, she will give you an IOI by re-initiating kino with you.

After she does, lean in and kiss her.

You’ll know that she is ready to be kissed after she IOIs you, because you verbalized that you wanted to kiss her, and her IOIing you is a way of accepting that verbalization.

Style / Neil Strauss (Author of The Game)